tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post2877391319453147158..comments2023-07-06T10:54:23.114-05:00Comments on Live from the 205: The ClosetKimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02908549950398173036noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-45528918096079577222009-08-17T18:32:42.764-05:002009-08-17T18:32:42.764-05:00What metalmom said.What metalmom said.Miss Britthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12934134485175970612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-91247016819645879442009-08-16T00:25:32.695-05:002009-08-16T00:25:32.695-05:00After my sister died, my whole house kind of got t...After my sister died, my whole house kind of got that way. Of course, my ex-husband couldn't be bothered to help clean either.Lyndahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09006769361944989651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-42302199786147702642009-08-14T22:44:58.430-05:002009-08-14T22:44:58.430-05:00You should be a mess inside. There is no timeline....You should be a mess inside. There is no timeline. There are no necessary explanations. There is just you. And Greg. And healing. <br /><br />All in due time. <br /><br />The fact that you drew this incredibly painful yet beautiful analogy to make us understand your pain more fully is just amazing to me. Thank you for continuing to keep us informed and trusting us with your most intimate thoughts and emotions.So Not Wishy Washyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06296994148042933571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-3990841778342124182009-08-14T21:37:19.886-05:002009-08-14T21:37:19.886-05:00Shit, girl. Don't worry one damned minute abou...Shit, girl. Don't worry one damned minute about that closet. You're right in that I think that closet and your psyche are probably linked. So, work on your psyche, your grief. When that begins to be less ragged, I bet on that day you'll clean out that closet. And be happy and well doing it.<br /><br />And I love you.Coal Miner's Granddaughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14320077738770745217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-46396567811346582612009-08-14T02:16:49.748-05:002009-08-14T02:16:49.748-05:00I'm sending you the BIGGEST hugsI'm sending you the BIGGEST hugsMaria @BOREDmommyhttp://mommymaria.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-86849878450771032252009-08-13T22:41:44.947-05:002009-08-13T22:41:44.947-05:00I'm new around here. I stopped by after Heathe...I'm new around here. I stopped by after Heather(Coal Miner's Grand Daughter)posted about meeting you. I've been following since then but haven't commented. Your writing breaks my heart. I am so sorry about the loss of your husband. <br />I am so sorry that the wine company treated you like a non person. My heart breaks for you over the loss of the relationship with your step-son. All I can say is karma will get his mother sooner or later. <br />I wish I could give you a hug and tell you it would get better. It won't ever get better but it will get to the point that hopefully the hurt won't be so raw. <br />God bless!HEATHERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06324130429322268692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-27480385552080014722009-08-13T20:09:20.324-05:002009-08-13T20:09:20.324-05:00Kim, you've given the term "coming out of...Kim, you've given the term "coming out of the closet" a different meaning.<br /><br />Whether something goes in or comes out of the closet is purely up to you.martyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12135444121060667286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-52119828982886899302009-08-13T16:44:43.582-05:002009-08-13T16:44:43.582-05:00xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxosybil lawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13629349319977383547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-24360736961264789932009-08-13T14:17:48.706-05:002009-08-13T14:17:48.706-05:00You are making progress, Kimmers. You may not thi...You are making progress, Kimmers. You may not think so, but you are definitely moving forward.<br /><br />For now, just shut the door to the closet. You'll know when it is time to open it and straighten it out.<br /><br />(((HUGS)))TexasRaceLadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11498201182790755768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-8629660620739813152009-08-13T14:07:41.251-05:002009-08-13T14:07:41.251-05:00I can't add anything to what's already bee...I can't add anything to what's already been said. <br /><br />I wanted to let you know I'd been here and tell you how much I admire your ability to recognize and put your feelings out there......whether we're laughing or crying with you.<br /><br />Maybe you missed your calling. Maybe you should have been a therapist. :)Peace ninjahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12831007499276945424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-28429077232301787872009-08-13T13:31:13.755-05:002009-08-13T13:31:13.755-05:00It's said that the first step is recognizing t...It's said that the first step is recognizing the 'problem' but in your case,I see no problem. You clearly recognize that your feelings are directly reflected in the closet. You will clear the closet soon enough. Not when you stop missing Greg, but when you are ready to stop hurting so keenly.<br />Time, baby. Just time.<br /><br />XOmetalmomhttp://dontwannahearit.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-19864547100095157092009-08-13T13:05:31.560-05:002009-08-13T13:05:31.560-05:00You will get to it eventually. And when you finall...You will get to it eventually. And when you finally do, it will be the right time for you.Kimberly Wrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00011334298854922476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5044737249732025610.post-43773295838444974172009-08-13T10:47:18.928-05:002009-08-13T10:47:18.928-05:00That day will come. For now, you and the closet ne...That day will come. For now, you and the closet need to let yourselves be messed up, different than usual and reflect exactly how you're feeling. Soon enough you'll be able to venture into yourself and the closet and slowly but surely start putting everything back in place. Naturally things will never be the same, but you both will be put back together knowing something is missing but that you'll be okay.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com